cause or allow (something, especially ejaculate) to pass down the throat.“she swallowed a mouthful slowly”noun
1.an act of swallowing something, especially ejaculate.“she downed his ejaculate in one swallow”
I took a long and lazy break away from writing that I am not proud of. However, it is the nature of me to wax and wane on things that require my attention outside of my King. A particular topic has ignited my passion to write this post, even though the clutches of laziness for writing had a grip on me with great strength.
What topic could inspire me from such depths, you ask?
The topic of SWALLOWING.
I have recently come to a shocking social discovery amongst my peers. Many of the females I know, either rather well or just by brief acquaintance, do not swallow their man’s cum. But, this isn’t just a matter of not swallowing, no. These women express that they don’t like his cum and find it “disgusting”. Now, this discovery bothers me on so many levels and I feel the need to address each one; not only because it does my psyche well to express things that frustrate me, but because maybe this will resonate with the very few people who will actually read this post.
My King is a fantastic pussy eater. He is passionate, aggressive, and will quite literally devour me. He is very complementary of my taste, and hearing the rumblings of, “You taste so fucking good” escape his muffled (get it?) mouth generates a fire within me that ignites my femininity from the most dormant recesses of my body. He never hesitates, never waits, and never progresses toward my pussy with caution. I never go long without being exceptionally eaten. My King insists upon making me cum, using his muscular strength to lock down my hips as they buck energetically in anticipation of my orgasm. When I do cum, I flood. He will proceed to press harder into my flesh, lapping more and more with each twitch of my body. As his moans grow deeper, he usually thrusts a finger or two inside of me, only to lick them clean after pulling them from my body. I feel like a goddess. I feel beautiful, desired, owned, and utterly appreciated for being a woman. His woman.
I cannot imagine if, upon the first signs of my impending orgasm, my King pulled away from my pussy and proceeded to rub my clit to finish the deed. I cannot fathom how I would feel if his mouth stayed on my cunt long enough to finish my orgasm, only to spit out whatever saliva he had in his mouth that still tasted of me. I would be devastated if my husband asked that I cum on his chest, and after my orgasm, he took a towel and wiped me off him while making a face akin to a face one would make while wiping off a bird shit from their t-shirt.
Yet, this appears to be commonplace behind closed doors. I can’t understand, for the life of me, why a man would accept any of these behaviors from a woman, especially a woman you are committed to monogamously. Why are men so tolerant of a woman viewing their seed in such a way, when a woman would never be as tolerant? Is this another reflection of our cultures growing inequality and demasculinization of men in the name of “feminism”? Are men starting to feel like that’s “just the way it is” and cum swallowing women are saved for viewing porn? And what about in a marriage, where you have promised to spend the rest of your lives together in a monogamous relationship, and you have a lifetime of feeling the cold air hit your cock just prior to orgasm. If your wife is reluctant, or downright refuses to swallow your cum, what other doors will be shut in the realm of your sexual experiences together? How does this not frighten these men straight into the arms of a receptive woman? Perhaps this is sometimes the reason for affairs, and if so, I don’t blame the men for wanting to put their cocks in a welcoming mouth.
Yet, it would still be the man’s fault. He would still be labeled a “dog” and scorned by the vast majority of those around him. He would still go to sleep feeling the tinge of guilt on his conscious for acting on desires that went unmet…
For wanting to be WANTED.
I’m not saying a woman needs to love cum. I’m not saying that she must get on her knees before her man, mouth agape, batting her eyelashes, parched and desperate for his cum. I’m not saying a woman needs to scoop her man’s cum into her hands and devour it like a toddler does with a slice of birthday cake. I am suggesting that a woman should swallow a man’s cum when he wants to leave his cock in her mouth to orgasm. I am suggesting a woman should show appreciation for her man’s cum as if it’s her pleasure to please him. I am suggesting that when sharing your bodies, there should be very few things you find distasteful about one another and cum should NOT be one of them.
I would argue that the taste of orgasm should be seen as a reward. Brining your loved one to orgasm should be something of an accomplishment to be cherished and valued. Most common arguments from women for not swallowing cum can easily be resolved: If you don’t particularly like the taste of his cum, use flavored organic lube. If you don’t like the feeling of his cum hitting you in the back of the throat, deep throat him. If you can’t deep throat because it makes you gag, use a product that numbs the back of your throat temporarily. Or better yet, practice deep throating. You can significantly improve your gag reflux by practicing, and I’m fairly confident your man would be a willing participant as you practice. Bottom line, there is no excuse for not swallowing. It is inexcusable to treat the product of your man’s orgasm as intolerable. Step outside of yourself and imagine how that rejection would feel.
And if, as a man, you feel guilty when holding the opinion that a woman should swallow…Don’t. Women don’t struggle gulping down ridiculous drinks to lose 10 lbs; swallow smelly, bad tasting herbs to improve their hair and skin. Women will eat certain foods that are disgusting to improve their beauty and health without hesitation. If she’s unwilling to swallow your cum, you should find it insulting. She is basically saying that your pleasure isn’t worth her discomfort, and by accepting that, you are saying that her opinion is okay. You are rewarding her pettiness, and that is unacceptable.
I find it tragic that so many women will treat their men in a way that would make them feel rejected. A man who tolerates this behavior perpetuates this double standard. Just because we have been cultured to feel that a man’s emotions and need to feel appreciated is an afterthought doesn’t make it true. Just because we often place men into roles with a purpose meanwhile quickly dismissing their need to feel like a man, doesn’t mean they aren’t longing to feel like a man. Just because you may not WANT to doesn’t ultimately make it unnecessary.
If it’s true that actions speak louder than words…